someone posted this on craig's list in the missed connections section. i laughed ---

to the drunk and/or high man who came to my window at 4 a.m. whispering...beckoning to my cat, "papi chulo" please stop. that's not his name. please stop playing with his emotions it's really scary for me, and my cat thinks you guys are dating now. i don't really allow my cat to date people...especially people with substance abuse problems...also, i'm pretty sure my cat is not gay.

oh and i wanted to respond to rusty's comments about the talking heads lyrics i posted a while ago,

obviously it was directed at you the title for the post said "for rusty"

second of all fuck you

third of all its not about being selfish and apathetic its about the limits of compassion and knowing when the time comes to put your own needs first

remeber: everything in moderation

moving on...

the tuesday party at the chocolate monkey is shaping up. more people more drag queens and more money. i may start working behind the bar on tuesday nights to give me something to do since we're there from 7 till around 1 or 2

after labor day david will be hosting the sunday party at cattyshack which i will probably also get involved in eventually

AND another weekly party at beauty bar is in the works as well as a semi-monthly party at the bushwick country club

i think cansei de ser sexy is my new favourite band at least for the moment

this is for rusty from the talking heads

In a world
where people have problems
In this world
where decisions are a way of life
Other people's problems they overwhelm my mind
They say compassion is a virtue
But I don't have the
Time

So many people
Have their problems
I'm not interested
In their problems
I guess I've
Experienced some problems
But now I've
Made some decisions
Takes a lot of time
To push away the nonsense
Take my compassion
Push it as far as it goes
My interest level's dropping
My interest level is dropping
I've heard all I want to, I
Don't want to hear any more

What are you, in
Love with your problems?
I think you take it
A little too far, it's
Not so cool to have
So many problems
But don't expect me to explain your indecisions
Talk to your analysts
Isn't that what they're paid for?
You walk, you talk
You still function like you used to
It's not a question
Of your personality or style
Be a little more selfish
It might do you some good

In a world
Where people have problems
In this world
Where decisions are a way of life
Other people's problems
They overwhelm my mind
They say compassion is a virtue
But I don't have the
Time
(Here we go again)