someone posted this on craig's list in the missed connections section. i laughed ---

to the drunk and/or high man who came to my window at 4 a.m. whispering...beckoning to my cat, "papi chulo" please stop. that's not his name. please stop playing with his emotions it's really scary for me, and my cat thinks you guys are dating now. i don't really allow my cat to date people...especially people with substance abuse problems...also, i'm pretty sure my cat is not gay.

oh and i wanted to respond to rusty's comments about the talking heads lyrics i posted a while ago,

obviously it was directed at you the title for the post said "for rusty"

second of all fuck you

third of all its not about being selfish and apathetic its about the limits of compassion and knowing when the time comes to put your own needs first

remeber: everything in moderation

moving on...

the tuesday party at the chocolate monkey is shaping up. more people more drag queens and more money. i may start working behind the bar on tuesday nights to give me something to do since we're there from 7 till around 1 or 2

after labor day david will be hosting the sunday party at cattyshack which i will probably also get involved in eventually

AND another weekly party at beauty bar is in the works as well as a semi-monthly party at the bushwick country club